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in need of some guidance please

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 1:28 am
by cscott123321
I feel lost on a lot of things and really would like some guidance on what I should do please

Re: in need of some guidance please

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2018 8:02 pm
by Arwen
Pressure, judgement, abuse, addiction, past mistakes coming back to haunt the present. There's a way forward and only you are standing in your own way. You cannot change the past so stop trying. There's a male around you now or in the near past that you need to get some relief from. A little holiday for a week or two might massively change circumstances and control can then be gained. Self belief as self esteem is dented. The confidence you're lacking in your own abilities needs to give way to who you once were and know you can be again. Other people always judge, they cannot help themselves. They squander all hopes of kindness and turn to the easier emotion of criticism. Do not allow yourself to care too much about this. The problems your own soul has been through have made you a different person. This different person is very kind hearted and a good friend.

The up and coming year is going to be hard for you. There's not much I can see in the way of relief sorry. As winter draws in and xmas approaches, things will start to improve. New ties with old family/friends must be reformed in order for you to get support for the changes you must make.