This Guy

[sue cali]

This guy.. can you tell me a bit about what you see?

[Sanford_P]

I'll give you my impressions. He is a "macho man," completely different than me. Of course, I am old enough to be his father. The tat's, the clothes, the fingernails all project a sense of power. He is strong, both physically and personality wise. If he was also caring and committed to a single woman, he would be the ideal man for you. I don't know if he is or not. That's deeper than I want to go without his permission. Reading a picture is one thing. Digging down under the surface without permission is something I don't do.

He seems to be a good guy on the face of it.

[sue cali]

I am his mom! :)

[Sanford_P]

"I am his mom! :)"

Oh!

I guess that completely blows my credibility as a picture psychic then. At least tell me if my impressions square up with yours. Being his MOTHER you are very close to him, perhaps too close to see the truth. It happens that way sometimes. I saw no obvious malice or evil in him, just a very manly guy enjoying lunch.

[sue cali]

He is very "macho". Yes we are close.

:)

HE has some things going on with him now, I am hoping for some resolution to choices but I am able to accept whatever comes.

[DistractedWriter]

Hello Sue, and please pardon my late reply. I am in no a pro, but I'll share what I felt from your son's photo. I picked up on a great sense of humor, somewhat of a risk taker, but also some insecurity. As another reader mentioned, I feel a sense of commitment for him when he's with the right person, like he loves with his whole heart. Perhaps a sense of shyness at times - like me, as I'm sharing my impressions right now. I think he's still finding his way and maybe he needs a little nudge now and then to encourage him and keep him on the path that's right for him. My apologies if my reading sucked. It's been a while and I'm still learning to trust my intuition.

Be well Mom. I have three sons and a daughter, so I feel ya. :)

[sue cali]

Thank you distracted.

[Kamek]

I keep seeing him driving off into the sunset. There are palmtrees around. I don't know what it means. He's in a convertible.

I also saw a mushroom. It made him big. He's a big guy. I'm sure he can handle what's going on.

And then I just saw the car drive away into the sunset again. I have no idea how accurate that is. I don't usually have so much trouble. But then, he was just driving into the sunset, so I guess that's where he's going.

[sue cali]

Well, that is interesting. He was on mushrooms when he was in rehab, and he crashed 2 cars.. we do have palm trees. HE is in trouble right now, again with addiction.. so I guess going into some sunset makes sense. I hope he does ok

thank you for the reading

[Oliver_Haddo]

Allow me a reply: I see a young man searching for connection, for all the right reasons but in all the wrong places. Contrary to what many say, he is not of a weak mind. He is bright, funny and full of potential! However, he is also tormented by a perpetual feeling of isolation, perhaps brought about by traumatic experience. Recognise, for both your sake, that the troubles he is in, are a symptom of this deep yearning for connection, not just with you, but with the world, with humanity. Reconnecting, that is his challenge right now! Everything else will follow and beating the habit is just a small, yet important, part of that.

Equally important, Id like to implore you to keep in mind, that connection is not just about availability, but also about one's ability to see opportunity and utilise it. If you cannot see what is right in front of you, or worse still, see it but cannot comprehend it properly, it really does not matter how many people tell you that it is right there. This is about his reality, not yours and the two may differ tremendously. That does not mean of course that you should accept everything, just that you should be careful not to project your view of the world on his troubles (and, if you are honest, you know you do this far more often than you would like to admit).

With the right help, support and mindset, he will claw his way out of this. His demons can be beaten! But be aware not to make light of them, lest you become one of them. You are his final lifeline, when all else fails! A responsibility that should not be taken lightly.