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Is he the one

Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2018 4:46 am
by nicolem
We have our ups and downs nut I feel he's dishonest should I keep trying or should I let go.

Re: Is he the one

Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2018 12:17 pm
by Aileni
Only you can decide. I will give you the same advice I gave my friend a long time ago, get 2 candles 1 black and 1 white, when there's good times light the white candle for 1 minute and blow it out, when there's bad times light the black candle for 1 minute and blow it out. This is a visual representation if the black candle is burnt lower than the white the relationship must come to an end.

Hope this helps in anyway.

Re: Is he the one

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2018 8:02 am
by Tofutti
I love the advice from Crimson Fox.

Trust your gut.... and then trust it again. We have a primal sense in regards to potential predators... we need to listen and not second guess it.

Please make sure your stability and kindness are not taken advantage of. Know the narcissists red flags and heed them. Be aware of the Inflate, devalue and discard cycle. I suspect you may be moving from Inflate to Devalue.

I also watch people around wait staff and animals to show me what’s behind the mask.

Spirit is telling me to tell you not to hand over any money to this guy. Keep strong personal healthy boundaries and take any step forward very very very slowly. If he’s the ‘Right One’ he will wait and then wait some more.

Remember the greatest love affair you’ll have in this life is with yourself. Make sure YOU are loving YOU and not waiting for another to fill that void.

Be strong my friend!!

Love and light to you 😁

Re: Is he the one

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2019 7:26 pm
by Rowan222
I get the feeling that he can be dishonest at times. The phrase "whatever it takes" comes to mind so would probably be a good salesman. I get that he is hard working or at least thinks he is, and he does have a long term plan and that does include you. It's up to you if the ends justify the means of getting there.
It won't be a straight path though. You will at times have to decide whether to do the right thing or do things his way which could cause some stress between you.
I just get that he's not that bad, just no angel.