I have no idea why this is happening. But lately I have been sensing the presence of different peoples spirit guide or dead relative . I can not see it for everyone. It just randomly happens. For instance, the other day I was talking to this guy when I started to kind of see a very light mist forming next to him. I then had this urge to ask him if his grandfather had passed away. And he was like " yes I have, I was very close to him." So I told him that his grandfather wants him to know that he watches over him. And then, the next day I ended up bumping into him. And he told me that he had a dream with his grandfather in it.

And then yesterday, I met these two girls at this bar that I went to and we were talking about celebrities, when suddenly I started seeing a misty kind of thing very light, form next to them. So I just asked them if they had a brother, a mother and father. They looked at me very strangely for asking this, I know that I must of looked ridiculous for asking such a random question while we were having such a great conversation. But they replied that their mother recently passed away. So I had this urge to tell them that she wants them to know that she loves them very much. Idk why I am experiencing this, especially with such random people. It rarely ever happens. Has anything like that ever happen to any of you?

I too see mists in the form of a person that is not the aura (which I also see).. I never knew how to identify them until I ran across a book called Angel healing by doreen virtue and in there, there's a diagram that shows what side the maternal and paternal grandparents sit on, mother, father, lovers, children.. etc. It was helpful.  Maybe that could help you a bit.. either way, its a wonderful book that helps you clear your chakras and help you with your "clairs".

You should also maybe see if you can focus on peoples auras, it shows a lot about them... can show illnesses that you could help prevent or help with.. also, if your seeing the mists, do something cool, I ask for archangel michael to come around, (whom I thought was my guardian angel that I called violet, and he came anyways..) and he shows up as this brilliant purple explosion looking things, its soooo cool. I've had angels work on me, I've sent angels to others, which I am sending to you right now as I'm typing to help you. Check out clairsentience, something tells me that's your main clair oh and claircognizence I have been informed twice now to not forget that lol

Ok and I don't understand this at all but a grandpa of yours was talking about some red shoe laces?? He just said ask her about the red shoe laces. Yup. Shell get that. So haha I realllyyy hope it makes sense.